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 Sahara (2005)
IMDB rating: 6.00
Plot: Searching for a treasure on the River Niger, Dirk Pitt thwarts the attempted assassination of a beautiful U.N. scientist investigating a disease that is driving thousands of North Africans to death. The suspected cause of the raging epidemic is vast, unprecedented pollution that threatens to extinguish all life in the world’s seas. Racing to save the world from environmental catastrophe, Pitt and his team run a gauntlet between a billionaire French industrialist and a bloodthirsty West African tyrant. In the scorching desert, Pitt uncovers the truth behind his life-long quest – the fate of a Civil War ironclad. Now, amidst the blazing, shifting sands of the Sahara, Dirk Pitt will make a desperate stand — in a battle the world cannot afford to lose!
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Directors: Eisner Breck
Actors: Zahn Steve,Cruz Penelope,McConaughey Matthew,Lindo Delroy,Macy William H.,James Lennie,Bosage Empotoe,Mbaye Thierno Amath,Houcine Ouahbou,Ouezgane Lahcen,Sanyalo Tosin,Adventure,Comedy,Action,
Am I a Loser or is there hope for me?
Ok I know that these questions are all over this page and that people are probably sick of answering them but right now its all i got so cut me a little slack. Basically i think i am pretty much a failure in life.
I literally have no friends and when i try to make new ones they just don’t want anything to do with me after a while and i don’t really do anything to make them like that i don’t think. The people i do "hang with" for lack of a better term are all in relationships and when i am there as I have no girl friend and never and have i am kinda a third wheel which makes things fun. Further to this I have not even had an intimate encounter with a female and i am 23. That’s just bad. And people say that you just have to find the right girl i just want to punch in the face because that’s a load of bollocks as I now people that are able to pick up and leave with the hottest girls in pretty much every bar i have ever been to. So how is that meant to make you feel.
Every girl i have ever known has just given me the flick. When i was in Grade 9, the girls i knew just wanted to hang with the jocks, Grade 10 was a little better, i was with a chick for 8 weeks. That was the last time I had anything that was remotely like a g/f. Since then it has been drier than the Sahara. Recently i was hanging with a chick from my local gym but that just ended badly for a whole lot of reasons which i can’t figure out. So I am kinda at my ends when it comes to that front, and honestly at times, i think the only thing keeping me from offing myself is the fact that i don’t want to die a virgin.
Those of you that would say turn to your family for help. My family that treats me as if i am the black sheep. I don’t know anything and i am not even worth the air i breath. Granted my mother is okay but apart from that i have no one in the family. Even with a dual degree I am still considered a loser by them. My younger cousins however who drink and smoke like there is no tomorrow, who have no Tertiary education or qualifications are higher up the pecking order than me. I know that you don’t need to have degrees to be successful and that’s not what this is about, I just want to be seen in the same light as them but in the eyes of the family I am basically a loser.
And there’s another thing, I worked my butt off to get through uni and have degrees but ultimately that’s not worth the paper its written on cause how is that going to help me in life i mean really. I work for the government and a public servant and just wasted the last 5 years of my life going to that place. Everyone else around me was having a great time with the drinks and the sex but none of that happened for me despite my efforts to try and make it happen. So what am i meant to do?
So to summarize, no Friends no g/f and despite my efforts to change myself by going to the gym, I have no hope. Thanks for reading.
Try an internet dating website. They may help in your case, you sound like a great guy.
Alot of girls don’t like guys who change themselves to get girls.
You’ll get the greatest girl ever, one day!
JERSEY(WE GO HARD) | Nov 21, 2009
as cliche as it sounds, you just have to wait for the right person. everybody has somebody, you’re still young, and by the sounds of it very intelligent and have a kind soul.
hang in there, you’re time will come, it may be just around the corner.
gurrl. | Nov 21, 2009
I love smart guys
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J F | Nov 21, 2009
It sounds to me like what you’re lacking is confidence and self-esteem. You don’t have to be the best looking, the smartest or the most athletic to land the perfect someone for you…however, you need to walk into a room and BELIEVE that you can own it, and you will! I used to be shy, kinda a wallflower, and with the help of family and friends, I learned how to fake the confidence until I gained it for real, and you know what? It seriously works! Next time before you go out, look at yourself in the mirror and give yourself a pep talk. Tell yourself all the positive attributes about yourself, and when you walk in somewhere, put a smile on your face and hold your head up high. Good luck!
Kristi | Nov 21, 2009
i dont think you are giving yourself enough credit your only 23 you got a lot of life to live hang in their
cameron f | Nov 21, 2009
uhh alright first off maybe u should try eharmony or match.com (not tryin to be funny) but just hang in there. also go places where ppl will be who like the same things as you. be open minded and dont have high standards. also use music as a weapon its very powerful.
Southfloyd | Nov 21, 2009
I think you need to take a step back and reasses yourself. People don’t want to frend you, and your family doesn’t treat you well. Why? Do you behave in a way thats off putting? etc
Jessica | Nov 21, 2009
It seems you have a social shell. I want you to find it smash it burn it bury it and drown it (all at once) and not care because you can do whatever you want now

YOU ARE FREE!!!!! Go and dance in the middle of the park because you can! When your family is mad do some creative insults that make them just give you the WTF look (looks like :O ) take life by the face and kiss it like there is no tomorrow. Now that you are complete go out and speak to all the girls you know. Tell them what they need to know and soon your life will be alot better

you’ll see!
Andres | Nov 21, 2009
You have a big down on yourself so in turn it brings the people you encounter down too..If you’re constantly looking on the black side how can you expect life to be bright ? If you want to meet people and find it difficult try a dating site,plentyoffish.com is where i met the love of my life,it’s completely free..Another thing,’friends’ are totally over rated,try having aquaintances they aren’t so needy……………
trish s | Nov 21, 2009
With what you have accomplished, you are not a loser.
As the song says, you are "looking for love in all the wrong places."
Maintain your relationship with your family as far as you can–even if it’s only with your mom, but don’t worry about how they speak or you or treat you. Consider it a sign of their immaturity.
Women are complex creatures. Develop your values and your integrity and look for someone who shares them. Rome wasn’t built in a day, and the wrong relationship can harm you infinitely more than not having dates right now will.
Warren D | Nov 21, 2009
ok first of all how you looking? if people asking if your neck threw up your in trouble lol but other then that man get rich, hoes love money!

The Man | Nov 21, 2009
ur a loser but obviously u already knew that lol jk yeh srry to hear about ur situation but im 19 and i have no g/f either so its no big deal cuz A LOT of people i know have never had a g/f. perhaps try to find a sport ur good at to make friends…hockey is highly recommended lol if u end up being really good, then u might become more popular with ur family and stuff and yes uni has definitely been a waste of my time as well!! but where im from, anyone getting a degree other than Science (B.Sc.) is considered to be dum…i know i hate how society works but people (especially in my family) make fun of everyone who don’t have a UBC Science degree, so i was kinda forced to go into Science there and trust me i hate every minute of it… just need that piece of paper so people dont look down on me and even more, they wont consider anyone smart unless they get into UBC medical school…so yes its an unfair world but hope everything works out for you!!

since ur finished uni anywayz now…u can finally start having some fun

Sandman | Nov 21, 2009
First things first!, stop feeling sorry for yourself!.
Thomas | Nov 21, 2009
Hey kid there is hope for everyone.. A sense of humour injection would not go amiss. Swap you lives? How would you cope with this?. Old age pensioner wrinkled like a prune. Husband with progressive illness cannot walk and incontinent. Daughter washed away in floods of 2007 but safe and living back with us as she lost all her worldly goods. Son in debt up to his eyeballs. Granddaughter doesn’t want to know her father and by implication us as well. House falling down around us . Garden too big to manage. Now you are in real trouble.!!! Pick yourself up dust yourself down and go and see the world. Try your hand at helping someone who really has a problem and then yours will pale into nothingness. The world is your oyster. Go and enjoy it. I also have two degrees. Think what you could do with that knowledge
patricia h | Nov 21, 2009